Friday, 02 October 2009

  • ode to e-mail

    I have an old email account that I check ocassionally just to make sure I haven't missed anything important. Typically, it's full of junk mail typical to free emails accounts, but every now and then I'll find a message from a real person... as in, not spam. I also have several folders storing old emails from various friends. Hmmm... wait. Emails from friends. Interpersonal communication. Intentional. Personal. Those were messages sent just to me.

    And I realized that it's really been a looooonng time since I got a real email. From a friend. Someone who just wanted to drop a note to say hey. Most of the emails I get these days are automatically generated. Notices of packages being shipped, requests for a book posted on PaperBackSwap, updates to my "wish list" on half.com (can you tell I like books?), information about our insurance. Some are not automatic, but they're sent to large groups, and do not require a reply: the random forward or mass-mailed prayer request, and the ocassional forward from Jason regarding work-related stuff. The most personal items in my inbox right now include a mass-email regarding some family drama (that was rather random, and from a cousin that I've never met) that I'm not involved in and a notification about a message on facebook. Facebook.

    Suddenly, I realize that all those personal emails I used to get now classify as some sort of pre-historic "before Facebook" novelty. As in, back when communication with friends and family had to be done more intentionally and personally. Haha. Did I just call email intentional and personal? That's hilarious, considering it's not exactly as personal as relationship "in real life". But anyhow. It's all relative, right? It's certainly more intentional and personal than a facebook status.

    It's true. And for about two years now (or is it three?) I've taken part of the Facebook mania... really, I justified it because I was "keeping in touch" with friends and family. Of course, we won't mention the fact that some of those people are mere aquaintances, and some I've never actually met "in real life". And nevermind the fact that some of the family I'm "keeping in touch" with rarely use their accounts. Or that my friend's list is so long that said family rarely (if ever) manage to get their updates to show on "my radar" (the newsfeed). They probably think I'm ignoring them, and I think that they're never on. Lol.

    It's really counter-intuitive to put in status updates (or even post pictures) so that one can "keep up" with friends. Not to mention counter-productive. I mean, now that you know that I need to recaulk our bathtub, or that I discovered the source of all those fruitflies my kitchen, or that I'm attempting to save money by using a clothesline, what next? You might reply or post a response, but none is really required. But now that you know that, you likely feel like you've "kept up" with me. And if you decide to reply, I might delude myself into thinking that I've "kept up" with you. Lol. Oh, the irony. The truth, I'm finding, is that there really is no substitute in my life for face-to-face relationships; the phone is a good thing; "snail mail" really is rather exciting; and facebook is no substitute for email.

    So. Now what? I'm going to post this to Xanga. You might read it, you might not. You might reply, we might engaged in some discussion. This will eventually be posted to facebook (both as a "note" and a Xanga update in the newsfeed), where others can read or disregard as they wish. Ultimately, though, my postings will be less frequent and eventually they may disappear altogether. Partially because of my thoughts here. Partially because I'm going to intentionally make it more difficult for me to do so (read: I'm not going to be paying for internet at home anymore, and will be checking at the library or using free wifi at a local establishment). If you want to get a hold of me, you know where I am -- we love having visitors! or you know my number -- texts and phone calls are welcome! I don't intent to close my Xanga or Facebook accounts. Nah. I'm not against them. But if I'm absent online, it's because I'm busy. Living. And intentionally building personal relationships. In real life. .

Wednesday, 02 September 2009

  • More Sawyer updates

    I came home from bootcamp last week to find this:

    Here's another shot of the little cutie


    Jason and the boys

    Sawyer wants everyone to watch this, especially Grandma


    He really enjoys sitting & playing (although I think he'd rather be running)

    He's getting quite good

Monday, 24 August 2009

  • Milestones

    We're not supposed to have three in one weekend. But we did. Or, rather, Sawyer did. Saturday night we pulled out the highchair. He's been sitting up well enough, we've started actually eating in the kitchen again, he's been sampling various solids, and we're tired of holding him in our laps (the last reason being the most motivating, in all honesty ).

    I really don't have a picture of milestone #2, but yesterday I discovered that Sawyer's cut his first tooth.

    Aaaannnnnnddd (#3) he's progressed to the next stage of becoming mobile. This is last night. I'll let the pictures tell the story.

    Seriously!? Already? See for yourself.

    Okay. So they're actually *backwards*. Minor detail, right? Lol. I'm finding this far more humorous than Sawyer is. I know I'm still stuck w/ the silent movies, but he was a bit frustrated .

    Soooooo, now begins the fun . Can't wait. And since he's napping, maybe I'd better go unpack some of those pots 'n' pans.

Monday, 10 August 2009

  • Remodeling the Kitchen

    Okay -- so it's not completely finished yet. But here's what's been going on with us lately.

    Monday (July 20) we sat down and made a list of what we needed to purchase at the hardware store. We intended to get a babysitter, go shopping on Thursday, and start the demolition on Friday. Meanwhile, I'd pack.

    Tuesday night it started to rain, so I knew my water aerobics class would be cancelled. I hadn't had any luck on landing a babysitter, and dinner was already hot when Jason arrived home from work. So we grabbed a bite, loaded up our baby, and headed up to Burlington.

    Wednesday (Day 1) I started packing, 'cause I figured we'd be anxious to get started. I could barely get all the clean dishes out before Jason was already pulling up baseboards & tearing up the first layer of lanolium. My house was totally rearranged. It was just the beginning.

    The kitchen sink cabinet wasn't attached to the wall, and when Jason removed the cabinets next to it, the sink collapsed. It didn't have a shut-off valve, and when he went to shut off the main house valve, it started leaking. The guy from the city had to come out and shut us off from the main in the yard.

    Thursday: Day 2.
    Jason had the main shut-off valve replaced and the new valves for the sink installed by noon. It was nice to be able to flush the toilet again. . The second layer of lanolium came out, a layer of padding & the tar paper. Jason removed the old tile back-splash, and began the framing for our new lighting.

    Friday: Day 3
    It was HOT. And Jason was up in the attic most of the day working on electrical. Lucas, the son of some friends of ours, took us up on our (only half-serious) offer to help tear out some wall board, and wound up helping the rest of the evening and all day Saturday. He was alot of help. Friday afternoon we were so hot & sweaty that we decided it was time to shower and go somewhere air-conditioned. So we packed up Sawyer again and made another (necessary) trip to Burlington for supplies -- made a few returns, some purchases (those add up fast!!), and spent some nice time in the truck (it's 2hrs round-trip).

     

    Day 4: Saturday
    We replaced the old wallboard we'd torn out, installed the new back-door (it's so pretty!), and Jason worked on electrical & framing for the lighting. Jason had taken 2 days off work, and we'd worked 9a-10p, mostly just taking breaks for meals. Oh, and we started celebrating our progress each evening with a bowl of ice cream. I figured it was fully justified! Sawyer's been spending lots of time hanging out on his blanket. So far he can only roll over to his tummy, and doesn't get back on his back very well. I think that that's ending, but I'm hoping he holds off another week or so. At first Sawyer wasn't too sure about having both Mom and Dad home and not getting more attention from at least ONE of them most of the time (lol) but he got used to it alright. 

    Day 6: We were back at it Monday morning; we finished prep-work for the plastering/patching/sanding part. That took longer than either of us expected. I pulled out the Johnny-Jump-up, hoping that it would keep Sawyer entertained for a while. You can also see part of our dinner set-up. I'm very grateful for the hot-plate that mom lent me. It's been a life-saver!

    Day 7: On Tuesday we put up the first layer of plaster. We realized that it was going to be a whole day before we could do much more, so we switch gears and started working on the floor. We completed the prep-work for the new flooring, which included replacing a moldy section of floorboard.

    Day 8-10. Wednesday night we installed the cement backer-board for the tile. We ran out of screws (due to some miscommunication about how many were supposed to be used per board) and the hardware stores around here close at 7p. So we didn't get to finish this part 'til Thursday morning. We spent the remainder of Thursday figuring out what else we needed that we hadn't already purchased, and Jason made another trip to Burlington, while I caught up on things like laundry, dishes (washed in the bathroom sink... yay), dinner, & other random things I needed to do to regain my sanity. Friday was spent installing tile. Jason is convinced that tile requires far more work than a floor deserves. But we both really.really like the results.

    Saturday morning we left for a quick trip to spend the weekend with Jason's family. We hadn't been up to Ioa since May, and needed to get away from the kitchen project anyway. Monday came far too quickly. Day 13: applying grout. picking corn.

     

    Day 14: I spent most of Tuesday at a friends putting up the corn that we'd picked the night before. 40qts went into the freezer. We're really going to enjoy all that sweet corn! Tuesday evening we spent the *entire* evening cleaning the tile. I'd followed the directions in the book (and on the bag) best I could tell... but not well enough. Let's just say that *all* excess grout needs to be scraped off the tile before it start to cure . So. Anyway. Lesson learned. And I'm motivated to try again and do it right. I'll probably get a chance to do that when we do the bathroom. Rather... if. lol

    Day 15-17: It's been TWO WEEKS already! Wow. Time really flies by quickly. Wednesday night we put down a layer of plastic to protect our new floor, and Jason sanded the last coat of plaster & applied a coat of primer. On Thursday I painted. And painted. And painted some more. And when Jason got home, he painted (the ceiling is kinda hard for me to get -- lol), applied a bead of caulking around the edges of the tile, and installed the lock & door knobs on our new door. Sawyer's getting to try all kinds of new toys!

     

    Day 18: We spent most of this week really pushing to get stuff done so we'd be ready for cabinets on Saturday. On Friday I cleaned & sealed the grout. When Jason got home we started bringing the cabinets in! Such an exciting moment. Jason started building the cabinets in October last year. He put up a guide for hanging the upper cabinets and cut a hole in the kitchen-sink-kickboard for the air vent. When we brought in the corner cabinet, Jason had to take off the front door so it would fit thru. We're both very grateful that he didn't make it another inch or two wider -- that's not something we'd measured for when we were planning last fall!

    Day 19: Jason's folks arrived Saturday morning. While Ernie helped Jason install the kitchen cabinets & the electrical for the oven, Lois and Sawyer and I went shopping & swimming . It was a very good day.

     

    Here we are. As you can see, Sawyer was generally the center of attention. In the bottom picture, I'm cooking pancakes for our Sunday breakfast in my new kitchen! Yippee!!

     

    Everything isn't done. We still have to put up the doors, stain and nail in the baseboards, make shelves, paint the utility closet doors and install the coat closet doors. And make the countertop. And maybe a few other things I can't think of. Oh, and we're planning to purchase a dishwasher & above-range microwave. But what we've done so far in the last three weeks has been very exciting!

Wednesday, 22 July 2009

  • time w/ family

    The past two weekends have been action packed! Nearly two weeks ago, my sister Cheryl arrived for a visit. We had lots of fun together, playing games, talking, fishing, talking, playing with Sawyer, & talking ... Lol.

     
    Sawyer did great on this fishing trip until the last 30min. For some odd reason he decided that he'd had enough, and began communicating this in no uncertain terms. In fact, it was so certain (and he didn't stop once we'd gotten the message) that another fisherman decided to relocate. We would've just packed up and gone home right then except that Jason kept catching fish. We've all been told that we're supposed to be quiet on fishing trips, right!? But no, Sawyer was hollering, and Jason kept catching fish. Enough for Sunday's lunch and Monday's dinner. Very tasty .


    Oh, well -- eventually we quit and Sawyer got to go sleep in his carseat while Sam had *his* playtime. You can see him here playing with his favorite toy.


    Yes, he's a little charmer. He's learning to giggle & laugh. The facial expressions are priceless.

     
    Sawyer's great-grandparents, Big Daddy & Gandy, came out from California to meet him. In fact, they flew in to St. Louis and then drove up to our house so they could stay with us for a night. Sawyer enjoyed making their aquaintance, I think. I know they sure did .

     
    On Friday we headed down to my parents house. Here Sawyer's playing with Grandpa Tate.


    Happy after breakfast .

     
    Last time we saw William, Sawyer didn't seem to notice him at all. But not this time! He stared and watched him with a very curious facination.

     


    The little cutie .

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